Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:40     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
Anonymous wrote:You sound unhinged. She may not even care to get another gift from you. How long has it been since the wedding?


Ha this is true. I definitely have some family members that I'd rather never have to deal with again because of their behavior.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:39     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
It is rude but I wouldn't stop giving gifts over it. I'm just not one who gets overly bothered about these types of things.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:39     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
No, not enough to by a house, but I thought it was generous. I gave them $1000.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:37     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
You sound unhinged. She may not even care to get another gift from you. How long has it been since the wedding?
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:36     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
Did you give her enough to buy a house or something?
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:34     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
You're an a$hhole.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:33     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
Anonymous wrote:I am not writing her off. I am just never giving her another gift.


THE HORROR
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:32     Subject: Re:My niece just screwed herself
Anonymous wrote:How long has it been? They have up to a year. I know people will be horrified if someone takes that long, but sometimes life is complicated and hard and you don't know what people go through to get those thank you notes out.

And honestly, if it never comes, let it go. It's a dumb reason to write someone off forever. I might have been lost in the mail!


You have a year to send a gift after a wedding, not a year to say thank you.

Also-that rule comes from an era long before online shopping/shipping.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:32     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
Anonymous wrote:I am not writing her off. I am just never giving her another gift.


So answer the question -- when was the wedding?
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:31     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
I am not writing her off. I am just never giving her another gift.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:30     Subject: Re:My niece just screwed herself
How long has it been? They have up to a year. I know people will be horrified if someone takes that long, but sometimes life is complicated and hard and you don't know what people go through to get those thank you notes out.

And honestly, if it never comes, let it go. It's a dumb reason to write someone off forever. I might have been lost in the mail!
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:29     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
When was the wedding? Etiquette says you have three months to send thank you notes.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:28     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
How much did you give?
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:27     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
Anonymous wrote:She couldn't bother to send a thank you note for her wedding. I am done.


Wut?
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 19:25     Subject: My niece just screwed herself
She couldn't bother to send a thank you note for her wedding. I am done.