I married the one who took my virginity, and every night I go in and try to get it back.

Marry then immediately divorce.

I did both- married the guy and still in my first salaried job out of grad school (had other gig jobs and hourly work before though). I’m in my 30s

I assumed this was first job out of college - that would have been my choice.

But if not, and it's first job ever - I'd marry the guy. We'd divorce quickly anyway (as he did with his actual first wife) and then I'd be on my way.

I am doing the latter. Sort of. Still with the same company where I started just out of college.

I am 50. There are a few of us here.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I did the former. I don't regret it because of my kids.

And delivering the Northwest Current on my two block "route" for $0.35 every too weeks probably wouldn't support my family too well.

omg you delivered the NW current?? did you really only get thirty five cents? how much did youget really?

i miss the nw current. i think i am one of five people on earth who actually read it.

anyway. i wish i could have married the guy i lost my virginity to! he was sweet and kind and wonderful to me and has made bank in finance.

he dumped me in college. oh well.

Well, I started with one route. I got a bicentennial quarter and a dime in an envelope through my mail slot every two weeks.

I added a couple other routes. One I got a half dollar and something. I think it was $0.02 a house rounded up to the nearest nickel? Whoever dropped the envelopes off seriously took the time to make sure you always got something special. I never got a regular quarter.

Clearly, this wasn't recent.

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Me? Work at my first job the rest of my life, only down side is i would be stuck in my small hometown.
But the guy i lost my virginity to would NOT be a good life partner so no way i could marry him.

Leave both, move to a big city, work hard, do the hustle and become someone and find someone you see as a good life partner.

You also can stay in your small town, work hard, build a good life and eventually find a better partner.

Marry a rapist or answer the phones in a convent for $4.35/ hour forever... I choose the nuns.

The question is poorly worded. Do you have to stay married to that first guy for the rest of you life? Either way, I’m glad I don’t still work at McDonald’s in my 50s.

Door #1 please.

Anonymous wrote:Well, I did the former. I don't regret it because of my kids.

And delivering the Northwest Current on my two block "route" for $0.35 every too weeks probably wouldn't support my family too well.

omg you delivered the NW current?? did you really only get thirty five cents? how much did youget really?

i miss the nw current. i think i am one of five people on earth who actually read it.

anyway. i wish i could have married the guy i lost my virginity to! he was sweet and kind and wonderful to me and has made bank in finance.

he dumped me in college. oh well.

I'd marry the guy I lost my virginity too. He was a nice guy, and while not wildly successful, he appears to be doing ok, and he's still pretty good looking.

I quit my first job after a month, so that tells you all you need to know about that, haha!

I married the person I lost my virginity too and I'm still married. I'm long gone from my first job (thank goodness, I made $10.50/hr). So there you have it.

Well, I did the former. I don't regret it because of my kids.

And delivering the Northwest Current on my two block "route" for $0.35 every too weeks probably wouldn't support my family too well.

????

Me? Work at my first job the rest of my life, only down side is i would be stuck in my small hometown.
But the guy i lost my virginity to would NOT be a good life partner so no way i could marry him.