Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:23     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?

OP, do not go to the husband. He will destroy all communications, photos, etc that he has with the AP and go dark. He'll also probably start a campaign against you with his wife.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:22     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
How do you know for certain? What is your proof?

Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:21     Subject: Re:My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous note in mail
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:21     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
You could tell her anonymously with a burner email, possibly, if you’re worried about her friendship
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:20     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:20     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
It’s the right thing to do to give her the information. It’s also possible she will end the friendship over it. I’m sorry. There’s no great answers.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:19     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:So, only tell if you're willing to lose the friendship


Yup. She may know and not care. She may not want to know. You could throw some suspicion at him and let her do with it what she will.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:18     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell. He will deny, she might go hard core denial, and both of them despise you.


This is possible, OP. I know someone who knows about their DH cheating, and looks the other way. If anyone asked her about it (or some of his many other antisocial behaviors and anger issues) she would play stupid. There might be no winning, depending on the morals of both the the DH and the wife.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:16     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
So, only tell if you're willing to lose the friendship
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:15     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
I would not tell. He will deny, she might go hard core denial, and both of them despise you.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:15     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Yes.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:15     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Only if you have solid, undeniable proof (photos or something). Don't go to her with idiotic assumptions or idle gossip.


+1

Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:14     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Yes, I would tell her. Same as I would bring it up if knew for sure that the man is mistreating her or has a harmful influence
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:13     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Only if you have solid, undeniable proof (photos or something). Don't go to her with idiotic assumptions or idle gossip.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2023 16:09     Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
I know for certain. And I’m 99 percent certain she does not know. It’s really eating at me, she is a very close friend.