Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:22
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
I agree it’s the beginning of a slow fade
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:21
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Op here. No, I earn more and higher educated.
but do you do anything meaningful?
Yes, a lot and my job is fulfilling.
SOunds like you'd be perfectly happy and fulfilled alone -- right?
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:20
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Op here. No, I earn more and higher educated.
but do you do anything meaningful?
Yes, a lot and my job is fulfilling.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:20
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
okay op tell me if i am right. i bet she was born and raised in a different country where phds are tremendously respected. was she born and raised here? or other country??
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:18
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Lord she was probably trying to give you a compliment. Like you’re fantastic and what did she do to deserve someone like you? She made this comment several months ago and you’re still fixated on it? That’s odd.
I agree with PP. this is what’s going on with your gf. She has some confidence and self-esteem issues and her comment shows that.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:18
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Op here. No, I earn more and higher educated.
DP. Okay. So, what makes her amazing, unique, and of highest value to you?
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:17
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Op here. No, I earn more and higher educated.
but do you do anything meaningful?
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:16
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Op here. No, I earn more and higher educated.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:05
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
the value of a PhD vs the value of the knowledge and skills or a nurse? hmmm.... really a tough one...
Anonymous
06/28/2023 14:00
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Man are these fake.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 13:42
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
+1. LOL. I was wondering which way it goes. OP consider yourself lucky. PhDs are dime a dozen, a nurse adds real value to the society and has lifetime job security, unlike you. Sounds more like beginning of, "it's not you, it's me" breakup.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 13:42
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Lord she was probably trying to give you a compliment. Like you’re fantastic and what did she do to deserve someone like you? She made this comment several months ago and you’re still fixated on it? That’s odd.
Anonymous
06/28/2023 13:34
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Anonymous wrote:Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?
So she outearns you?
Sounds self-deprecating to me…
Anonymous
06/28/2023 13:33
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Does she has any body issues? Who look better out of you two?
Anonymous
06/28/2023 13:27
Subject: GF says she doubts that she deserves me
Gf and I are both in our 40s and have been dating for 6+ Months. We have a little mismatch in our education(I have an PhD and she’s a nurse) and income levels but I have never shown or make her feel about that in any way. A couple of months back she mentioned that she has doubts that she deserve me which caught me off guard. Not sure where is this coming from - low self esteem?