Anonymous
06/17/2023 02:57
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Anonymous wrote:Depends on the terminology. Some terms have become 'dog whistles', innocents may not realize they are loaded terms, and repeat them without understanding the implications. Is he a good guy otherwise?
If you're comfortable, I'd call it out in a gentle way next time you hear it. Ask him what he means by it. Depending on how he responds, either give a neutral nod and walk away at your earliest opportunity, or say something like "oh, ok. I've heard people say that in XYZ context/meaning/whatever, and I was curious if that's what you meant. Glad to hear it's not, because I don't think I could continue with someone who has THAT kind of attitude!" And laugh it off like of course he wouldn't. He'll get the message that either (a) you're not his person, or (b) he needs to rethink his phrasing.
I agree, but I wouldn’t say that you know about the whole redpill universe. If he knows you know, he’ll just try to hide it. That’s how you end up in an LTR with someone who’s not who you think they are. Let him run his mouth freely. If there’s a problem, you want him to tell on himself.
Anonymous
06/17/2023 02:54
Subject: He used red pill terminology
This is such a hard question. I have also had to make this call. I’m sorry to say that one time I decided to overlook it and things went very, VERY wrong.
That said, it depends on the terminology. Some words have seeped outside of that community more than others. Does he spend a lot of time on Reddit? I’ve noticed many on non-redpill Redits have absorbed redpill terms and ideas.
Trust your gut. At a minimum, he’s on strike one. Any more red flags, and you get out.
That said, it depends on the terminology. Some words have seeped outside of that community more than others. Does he spend a lot of time on Reddit? I’ve noticed many on non-redpill Redits have absorbed redpill terms and ideas.
Trust your gut. At a minimum, he’s on strike one. Any more red flags, and you get out.
Anonymous
06/17/2023 02:04
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Anonymous wrote:You in danger girl.
Anonymous
06/17/2023 01:59
Subject: He used red pill terminology
In this parlance, being red-pilled means recognizing social realities like male oppression and biological realities like female hypergamy, while being black-pilled means believing that there is little that low-status or unattractive men can do to improve their prospects with women.
Red pill and blue pill - Wikipedia
Red pill and blue pill - Wikipedia
Anonymous
06/17/2023 01:49
Subject: He used red pill terminology
What exactly did he say?
The fact you didn’t include that is odd.
The fact you didn’t include that is odd.
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:59
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Anonymous wrote:Can you tell us what he said?
+1
Maybe he’s a matrix nerd?
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:56
Subject: Re:He used red pill terminology
Anonymous wrote:Can someone do a “red pill for dummies” thread?
+1
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:46
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Best case scenario is that he is ignorant and just repeating something he heard, but even that is something you should run from.
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:37
Subject: Re:He used red pill terminology
Can someone do a “red pill for dummies” thread?
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:33
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Depends on the terminology. Some terms have become 'dog whistles', innocents may not realize they are loaded terms, and repeat them without understanding the implications. Is he a good guy otherwise?
If you're comfortable, I'd call it out in a gentle way next time you hear it. Ask him what he means by it. Depending on how he responds, either give a neutral nod and walk away at your earliest opportunity, or say something like "oh, ok. I've heard people say that in XYZ context/meaning/whatever, and I was curious if that's what you meant. Glad to hear it's not, because I don't think I could continue with someone who has THAT kind of attitude!" And laugh it off like of course he wouldn't. He'll get the message that either (a) you're not his person, or (b) he needs to rethink his phrasing.
If you're comfortable, I'd call it out in a gentle way next time you hear it. Ask him what he means by it. Depending on how he responds, either give a neutral nod and walk away at your earliest opportunity, or say something like "oh, ok. I've heard people say that in XYZ context/meaning/whatever, and I was curious if that's what you meant. Glad to hear it's not, because I don't think I could continue with someone who has THAT kind of attitude!" And laugh it off like of course he wouldn't. He'll get the message that either (a) you're not his person, or (b) he needs to rethink his phrasing.
Anonymous
06/16/2023 23:26
Subject: He used red pill terminology
You in danger girl.
Anonymous
06/16/2023 22:34
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Yea, need more details.
Anonymous
06/16/2023 22:27
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Can you tell us what he said?
Anonymous
06/16/2023 22:26
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Run
Anonymous
06/16/2023 22:24
Subject: He used red pill terminology
Guy I just started dating recently used some red pill terminology. Other than this he’s been awesome. But due to him using the terminology I don’t think I can continue. Anyone have a successful relationship with a man who would use this type of terminology?