Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 12:05     Subject: Re:Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Do what you want to do - we just came from DS's elementary "graduation" and I saw a wide-range of gifts. Boys were mostly given balloons. DS got a hug and a "great job." LOL
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 11:39     Subject: Re:Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

If you want to give your kid flowers and you think they would like it, and it would communicate to them that you are happy/proud of them, then do it. Who cares what other people do?

I find the idea that there is a "correct" way to celebrate your kid finishing elementary school really weird, and I especially don't get the people who are like "it doesn't matter, do nothing." Of course finishing elementary is not as big a deal as graduating high school or college. That's fine. But there's not some rule that people only receive flowers if they do something that really impresses you. I've given people flowers for appearing in terrible plays where they were actively bad. It's just a nice thing to do and it makes someone feel good, plus then you take them home and put them in a vase and when you see them you think "ah, someone loves me." That's what flowers are for. It's not some special reward for only very specific academic achievements. Lighten up, folks.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 11:22     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Flowers do not have a gender other than what we as a society have created. Everyone can see beauty in flowers not just girls/women.
Having said that, I didn’t get my kid anything for 5th grade promotion.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 11:20     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Anonymous wrote:No, they're not graduating.


+1
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 11:11     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Anonymous wrote:DS is graduating from elementary school tomorrow. I told DH we should pick up some flowers and he said that no one will bring flowers to an elementary school graduation.

Do people give flowers at an elementary school graduation?


Listen to your DH! Anything other than high school and college graduations are ridiculous.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 08:51     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

There will likely be at least one or two other families with flowers for a girl. You can decide for yourself if that’s something your kid would like!
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2023 08:49     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Anonymous wrote:No, they're not graduating.


+1. No flowers for a promotion ceremony
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 23:24     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Anonymous wrote:For a boy? No. Go for ice cream afterwards.


The only kid to get flowers at our kindergarten graduation today was a boy. OP, we do flowers for performances/recitals but not graduations. We do give teachers flowers all the time though. Whenever it’s a birthday or teacher appreciation week every student brings in one flower to make a bouquet
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 22:20     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

No, they're not graduating.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:47     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

For a boy? No. Go for ice cream afterwards.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:46     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Most girls I saw received flowers.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:43     Subject: Re:Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

DD graduated today. We have her flowers and there were other kids who got flowers as well (mostly girls though, I don’t think I saw any boys with flowers).
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:41     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

Anonymous wrote:DS is graduating from elementary school tomorrow. I told DH we should pick up some flowers and he said that no one will bring flowers to an elementary school graduation.

Do people give flowers at an elementary school graduation?


I would but probably no one else would. I gave my DD and her friend a bouquet for competing in the science fair. No one else did.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:40     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

No flowers for the student. But it might be nice to give to the teachers.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2023 21:34     Subject: Should we give flowers for elementary graduation?

DS is graduating from elementary school tomorrow. I told DH we should pick up some flowers and he said that no one will bring flowers to an elementary school graduation.

Do people give flowers at an elementary school graduation?