Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:21     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Sure, maybe. Life isn’t always black and white.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:19     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

That’s a cautionary tale if they all were friends.


They don’t know each other.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:19     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.


Women cheaters?


Yes that the subject of this thread, women cheaters.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:11     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.

That’s a cautionary tale if they all were friends.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:10     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.


Women cheaters?
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:06     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I was younger, I'd have quickly said "yes." But, we've been together 20 years, have a really great life, and sex just doesn't loom as large as it once did in my mind.

I think it's highly unlike that she would, and maybe I'd still find it a marriage ender. But now I'm more open to the idea that there are possible contexts where I'd forgive and work through the damage.


But it’s not about sex right? Or is it?


It’s somewhat about sex. I think maybe sex has declined in importance somewhat which, in turn, makes the betrayal feel a little less severe.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 20:02     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
I’ve had 4 friends cheat and get caught, and all but 1 divorced.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 19:58     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
I think the actual research says men are more likely to leave
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 18:53     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Automatic divorce. You can never come back from it if she does that.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:32     Subject: Re:Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Yes.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:24     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Anonymous wrote:When I was younger, I'd have quickly said "yes." But, we've been together 20 years, have a really great life, and sex just doesn't loom as large as it once did in my mind.

I think it's highly unlike that she would, and maybe I'd still find it a marriage ender. But now I'm more open to the idea that there are possible contexts where I'd forgive and work through the damage.


But it’s not about sex right? Or is it?
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:22     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
When I was younger, I'd have quickly said "yes." But, we've been together 20 years, have a really great life, and sex just doesn't loom as large as it once did in my mind.

I think it's highly unlike that she would, and maybe I'd still find it a marriage ender. But now I'm more open to the idea that there are possible contexts where I'd forgive and work through the damage.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:18     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Yes, we are an older couple but if that ever happens, we will go our separate ways. Once the trust is broken, foundation is gone.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:12     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Not if you don't want to be intimate with her. Then it's open
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2023 17:09     Subject: Would you leave if your wife cheated?
Lots of posts on here about what would you do if your husband cheated. But what about your wife? Men, would you leave if your wife cheated? Is that an instant deal breaker?