Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you pray the rosary as a family, how do you keep the kids involved (ie not running around)? I don’t want to turn it into a battle of wills and sour them on the experience (kids are 22 month and 4).
Your kids seem too young to concentrate on a serious task like this. How old were you when you started praying the rosary? Did you do it as a family?
They're way too young! 4 is old enough to start learning the prayers, but not old enough to sit through even one decade of the rosary. 22 months is too young for either.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you pray the rosary as a family, how do you keep the kids involved (ie not running around)? I don’t want to turn it into a battle of wills and sour them on the experience (kids are 22 month and 4).
Your kids seem too young to concentrate on a serious task like this. How old were you when you started praying the rosary? Did you do it as a family?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^PP My older kids dont pray with me just listen. Maybe this summer we can pray it, thatd be good.
Maybe ask them first how they feel about you - or them - praying the rosary.
Maybe raise your own kids and don’t worry about other people’s kids?
You don’t pay the bills in their house, you don’t cook/clean/provide childcare. You don’t take their kids to school or help them do their homework. When their child is sick, you don’t get up at night to give them medication or take them to the doctor or hospital. You don’t have anything to do with how pp takes care of or raises their child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^PP My older kids dont pray with me just listen. Maybe this summer we can pray it, thatd be good.
Maybe ask them first how they feel about you - or them - praying the rosary.
Anonymous wrote:^PP My older kids dont pray with me just listen. Maybe this summer we can pray it, thatd be good.
Anonymous wrote:That’s mighty young. Maybe give them their own beads (mindful of size, material, etc., especially for the little one) and a rosary picture book? The four year old could sing the “Ave, Ave, Ave Maria” between decades. They could probably both do the sign of the cross at beginning and end. If they’re in the same room with you, they will lick things up gradually. You could use a statue and an (rlectric) candle as a focal point. I agree it is probably unrealistic and unfair to try to make them sit there perfectly still and watch you pray.
Anonymous wrote:If you pray the rosary as a family, how do you keep the kids involved (ie not running around)? I don’t want to turn it into a battle of wills and sour them on the experience (kids are 22 month and 4).