Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:19     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.


Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.


I don't hide my life either. I guarantee it is something with your delivery or how you talk about it.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:19     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.


Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.


I think you clearly are obnoxious. Why do you have to tell your friends? Under what circumstances are you forced to tell?
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:18     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.


Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:18     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.


Sounds like you have some more growing to do, friend.

Lmao. Ok crab, stay in your bucket.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:09     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.


Sounds like you have some more growing to do, friend.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:08     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 15:06     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?


“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff


Please tell me this is not OP…
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:50     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:45     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:she was a college friend.

How many mutual friends do you still have?
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:45     Subject: Re:I’m sad, I lost another friend
The thread title suggested that this would be about a death. Happy to read that it was only about the death of a friendship.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:43     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.


This is not her fault...
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:42     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?


“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:08     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
What do you mean by "leveled up"?
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:07     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Maybe she will contact in the future but if I’ve learned anything from the past, once they go, usually they go.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2023 14:07     Subject: I’m sad, I lost another friend
Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.