Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 08:15     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.

Sure Jan. You sound like a betrayed wife trying to impersonate a wayward husband.


NP. You really think men cheat (women too) only when they are in love, and not just for a sex filled ego trip? I have a bridge to sell you…


Well, on a website forum that is 98% women, of course they think it’s love. Men are about sex, especially the ones on a website where that is what both parties are advertising. Are you in love when you go bang someone you never met in person after just a few email exchanges??

Was Clinton in love? Was Hugh Grant? Was Trump? Was Adam Levine? Tiger?

Come on. Women get feels. Men are great at pretending to have them. If it was love he would have left his wife.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 07:13     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Of course I fell in love with her. I'm not a monster.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 07:05     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.

Sure Jan. You sound like a betrayed wife trying to impersonate a wayward husband.


NP. You really think men cheat (women too) only when they are in love, and not just for a sex filled ego trip? I have a bridge to sell you…
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 04:52     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Yes, long before anything physical happened. I did it bc I loved him.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 04:13     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.

Sure Jan. You sound like a betrayed wife trying to impersonate a wayward husband.


DH told his gf he’d be back because it would be awkward not to. D
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 01:42     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.

Sure Jan. You sound like a betrayed wife trying to impersonate a wayward husband.


NP. Lol you nailed it. That lady tells that story about her husband doing that all the time.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 01:15     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Yes. I did. So I broke it off (twice!). It was painful but falling in love with him was not what I was looking for.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 01:03     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.

Sure Jan. You sound like a betrayed wife trying to impersonate a wayward husband.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2023 00:01     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.


You sound drunk. Are you trying to make it up to your wife?
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 22:27     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Gross. Please go away. You're weak and sick.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 22:25     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Yes.

I never lived spouse, and initiated divorce.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 22:22     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
In the process of falling in love if I’m not already. I haven’t been in love with DH for many years. I’m planning to ask for a divorce within the next year regardless of what happens with AP. Money will be tight but I’m very unhappy at home. Life is passing by very quickly and I feel like I deserve to be happy.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 21:56     Subject: Re:Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
No. She did with me do I had to end it. It was supposed to be no-strings. I did say ily back because at that point over time it was awkward not to, but nothing at all resembling true love or like it was with my wife.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 21:43     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
Yes. It trumped it. We are now divorced.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2023 21:36     Subject: Did you fall in love with your affair partner?
How and why?

How did these feelings effect your love for your spouse?