I want to give my kid more independence and responsibility, but could use some advice on the “how” in raising self-sufficient kids. My kid has ADHD, and I think I’ve let myself do too much for her because it takes her a frustratingly long time to get anything done. I don’t want to be putting her laundry away for her when she’s 15, so I need to start building some scaffolding now. Any suggestions for great parenting books about building independence and confidence in kids?