Anonymous wrote:I like to plan 6 months in advance meaning theme, ideas, pintersr boards, etc…Husband thinks im nuts! But i think it’s necessary with 4 kids. His head seems to always be spinning but Im the one moving the parts. Basically he thinks I’m always on birthday mode. I just need him to cut the check and shut up!
With 4 kids, depending on their spread for birthdays (our is only 6 weeks) I could see myself planning virtually year round. Just to make sure I didn't miss anything. Listening to what they like, etc. I don't think it's a crime to want your kids to looks back on their birthdays as special (not necessarily expensive) because someone took the time to really plan for them as an individual.