Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would never talk to this person again. That's such a waist of your time.

Yeah it's weird. He was sooooooooo attentive texting me nonstop the other day when we made plans. Then the conversation fell off a day ago and no messages today and it's almost 4pm. I guess I'll probably just stay in with wine and vanderpump rules

Maybe dating customs are different in the country you're posting from.

If this guy got in a car accident, was out of commission and missed a date with this poster, he got lucky.

Haha yeah I also had this once and the guy had been in an awful car accident and was so drugged up in the hospital for a couple days that he wasn’t on his phone or with it enough to text.

It’s not clear what info are you waiting for. Was it just a vague “want to go out weds night?” And now you’re not sure of actual plan? Is this a first date? Do you guys live close by so it’s reasonable to think you might decide on a spot in the evening? If you’ve suggested something like “how about 7:00 at xyz” and he doesn’t respond for hours and hours then yeah I’d be annoyed bc that’s an easy “sounds good” response from him

Did he give you a day, time, and place? Then show up, he will be there.

I find women who need constant hand-holding about date plans tend to suffer from OCD.

We old people who dated back before texting was Every. Single. Day. All. Day. can remember when we weren't expecting constant contact. The fact this guy was texting a lot then went silent may be more about your texting expectations than about his intentions re: this date. Not super polite of him, I agree, but you're very ready to ditch him with no idea of any context. I'd be wondering if something work-related or personal came up and then I would contact him rather than waiting for him to contact me, because if I'd said yes to a date, he must be at least somewhat of interest to me. And I'd give the benefit of the doubt to someone new, the first time. I would not be crowdsourcing "should I just dump this date" based on no information from him about WHY he hasn't been in touch.

Do you know the place and time? I only mentioned because you are asking us if you should just not go, as if you have the option of going.

I would not waste my time.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would never talk to this person again. That's such a waist of your time.

Yeah it's weird. He was sooooooooo attentive texting me nonstop the other day when we made plans. Then the conversation fell off a day ago and no messages today and it's almost 4pm. I guess I'll probably just stay in with wine and vanderpump rules

Maybe dating customs are different in the country you're posting from.

Anonymous wrote:That happened to me and the guy had died, for real.

What happened and how did you find out?

Anonymous wrote:That happened to me and the guy had died, for real.

Yikes!

OP, yeah, I would move on. Hope you had a good night!

That happened to me and the guy had died, for real.

Anonymous wrote:I would never talk to this person again. That's such a waist of your time.

Yeah it's weird. He was sooooooooo attentive texting me nonstop the other day when we made plans. Then the conversation fell off a day ago and no messages today and it's almost 4pm. I guess I'll probably just stay in with wine and vanderpump rules

I would never talk to this person again. That's such a waist of your time.

Doesn't care. Move on.

Plan something with friends but do go out.

Would you just not go? Why do men do this?

Obviously he doesnt care that much, right?