Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:30     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You said she cleans up after herself. What more do you expect from a house guest?


Sweep, mop, laundry, etc. - any of those.


She's not doing her own laundry? You want her to do your laundry?
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:29     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
From one guy to another, you’re an idiot Sir.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:27     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:You said she cleans up after herself. What more do you expect from a house guest?


Sweep, mop, laundry, etc. - any of those.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:22     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Do you ever go and stay with her? And do you help her clean her place while you're there?

I think if you do that it's reasonable to ask for reciprocation. But, if she does all the traveling to you, and cleans up after herself, then you look like a douche asking her to clean up your place.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:18     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Shes a guest. So shes cleaning up after herself which is sufficient.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:17     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
She needs to pick up after herself, but shouldn't be scrubbing toilets, mopping, dusting, vacuuming, etc.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:16     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
You said she cleans up after herself. What more do you expect from a house guest?
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:16     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you hosting her? Or is living with you. Those are two different things.


I am hosting her. She stays for a bit then goes back home because we live about 3 hours away from each other.


So you're the host. You're in charge of cleaning or hiring someone to clean.


How? She’s an adult and stays here frequently.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:15     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you hosting her? Or is living with you. Those are two different things.


I am hosting her. She stays for a bit then goes back home because we live about 3 hours away from each other.


So you're the host. You're in charge of cleaning or hiring someone to clean.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:14     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:Are you hosting her? Or is living with you. Those are two different things.


I am hosting her. She stays for a bit then goes back home because we live about 3 hours away from each other.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:13     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Anonymous wrote:3PM on a Monday is a weird time to start s**t online.


School’s out!
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:12     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Is she leaving it dirtier than when she arrived?
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:11     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
Are you hosting her? Or is living with you. Those are two different things.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:11     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
3PM on a Monday is a weird time to start s**t online.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2023 15:10     Subject: My girlfriend doesn’t clean when she’s here
My girlfriend lives hours away so she comes and stays with me about 2 weeks at time. When she’s here she does clean up behind herself but that’s it. She left today and I texted her asking her if she could start helping me clean before she leaves. This for some reason ticked her off.

How was I wrong here?