Anonymous wrote:\]Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
I mean, good for your kid. But I think it’s also important to know you are an extreme minority. Most people for good reasons seek out settings where they are not extreme outliers. And I’m not talking about race - I’m talking about academic need. Basically you likely have very specific personal/family/kid quirks that are far from generalizable for most DCUM parents.
You know neither the PP or most DCUM parents… why do you feel that you can speak for/about them??
I can look at the numbers at MacFarland and pretty clearly conclude that most DCUM parents’ choice to send their kid there would be very counter-cultural for our socio-economic class (again NOT race). If you’re a counter-cultural family, cool, go for it. But there’s always the ONE parent who insists “my kid is THRIVING at [x terrible school] and you need to take that with a giant grain of salt because it likely will not be acceptable to most of us. (And as it pertains to MS, do ask them where they plan to send Jr to HS. It’s not Dunbar. Usually they plan to go private or assume Walls admission.)
I love that this thread is literally called "experience at MacFarland", a parent shared their experience, and then a person who does not have family there told them that their experience was wrong.
Took less than 1 page for this to reach peak DCUM
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
I mean, good for your kid. But I think it’s also important to know you are an extreme minority. Most people for good reasons seek out settings where they are not extreme outliers. And I’m not talking about race - I’m talking about academic need. Basically you likely have very specific personal/family/kid quirks that are far from generalizable for most DCUM parents.
You know neither the PP or most DCUM parents… why do you feel that you can speak for/about them??
I can look at the numbers at MacFarland and pretty clearly conclude that most DCUM parents’ choice to send their kid there would be very counter-cultural for our socio-economic class (again NOT race). If you’re a counter-cultural family, cool, go for it. But there’s always the ONE parent who insists “my kid is THRIVING at [x terrible school] and you need to take that with a giant grain of salt because it likely will not be acceptable to most of us. (And as it pertains to MS, do ask them where they plan to send Jr to HS. It’s not Dunbar. Usually they plan to go private or assume Walls admission.)
\]Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
I mean, good for your kid. But I think it’s also important to know you are an extreme minority. Most people for good reasons seek out settings where they are not extreme outliers. And I’m not talking about race - I’m talking about academic need. Basically you likely have very specific personal/family/kid quirks that are far from generalizable for most DCUM parents.
You know neither the PP or most DCUM parents… why do you feel that you can speak for/about them??
I can look at the numbers at MacFarland and pretty clearly conclude that most DCUM parents’ choice to send their kid there would be very counter-cultural for our socio-economic class (again NOT race). If you’re a counter-cultural family, cool, go for it. But there’s always the ONE parent who insists “my kid is THRIVING at [x terrible school] and you need to take that with a giant grain of salt because it likely will not be acceptable to most of us. (And as it pertains to MS, do ask them where they plan to send Jr to HS. It’s not Dunbar. Usually they plan to go private or assume Walls admission.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
I mean, good for your kid. But I think it’s also important to know you are an extreme minority. Most people for good reasons seek out settings where they are not extreme outliers. And I’m not talking about race - I’m talking about academic need. Basically you likely have very specific personal/family/kid quirks that are far from generalizable for most DCUM parents.
You know neither the PP or most DCUM parents… why do you feel that you can speak for/about them??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
I mean, good for your kid. But I think it’s also important to know you are an extreme minority. Most people for good reasons seek out settings where they are not extreme outliers. And I’m not talking about race - I’m talking about academic need. Basically you likely have very specific personal/family/kid quirks that are far from generalizable for most DCUM parents.
Anonymous wrote:my kid there is way above grade level and having a good time. Likes teachers and classes.
DCUM conventional wisdom is just gonna be what it's gonna be. People don't come here to learn, they come here for (self-)reinforcement.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP, is your kid on grade level or above? Are most of the peers the same. What I have heard is that most kids are way below grade level and smart kids are bored or doing busy work.
You can look at the PARCC data. Most of the kids are way below grade level. You can look at the algebra numbers and and see that, even when there is tracking, it's only separating out the extremely behind kids from everyone else. In the absence of anyone with extremely specific things to say about teachers providing an extraordinary amount of in-class differentiation, you should assume that if your kid is above grade level, meeting their academic needs is not going to be something the school has the ability to do.
Anonymous wrote:PP, is your kid on grade level or above? Are most of the peers the same. What I have heard is that most kids are way below grade level and smart kids are bored or doing busy work.