Anonymous wrote:You and I are twins. I have the exact same problem. A closet full of cute high end dresses that are either slightly small or slightly big, and nothing is neutral. I can't stand the thought of overpaying for new clothes when I spent less than $10 on everything I own.

You spent $10 on each thing and they’re worthless.

You and I are twins. I have the exact same problem. A closet full of cute high end dresses that are either slightly small or slightly big, and nothing is neutral. I can't stand the thought of overpaying for new clothes when I spent less than $10 on everything I own.

It’s all stuff people bought but didn’t wear enough to wear out. Not surprised the buyer’s remorse followed to the next owner.

I can relate. Also, I hate it that certain thrift stores no longer let you try things on - looking at you Value Village!

Before getting rid of them I'd bring them to a cheap tailor and see if I can get any of them to easily fit my body perfectly. You might surprise yourself!

Buying things because they’re a “deal” or a particular when they don’t actually fit is a shopping problem, not a wardrobe problem. It’s okay to have 1 or 2 things like this, I think we’ve all done it at some point.

Focus on what you actually like and not brand names. I've had that problem before too. The good news is you should have an easy time consigning those things that don't suit you.

Figure out what things you DO really like, and then once you do I agree with the PP who suggested Poshmark. I buy most of my clothes there, but you need to know what sizes and styles in various brands work for you first.

Yes, this used to happen to me when I shopped at certain brick and mortar thrift stores. Never again. I've discovered Poshmark. Most sellers are honest and note if something is a little worn, and most will give you the measurements of the item, as well as point out any flaws. I now steer clear of all such, because I've decided to buy fewer pieces that are like new and truly fit, instead of multiple cheap ones.

Much happier now!

Only buy things you love. New or thrifted, doesn’t matter. Does it fit and flatter? Do you feel good in it? If no to any, move on until you find a yes to all.

Imagine the joy of having a closet full of all those “yes” items! You also may find you need fewer because you love them all and are happy to wear any of it.

I think the issue is that you are short on basics. If you are doing lots of your shopping in thrift stores, you are probably getting the statement or one off pieces because the basics don't end up there, they are worn to death by the original owner. So, do pay attention to what's missing in your wardrobe.

Oh, and when you do go to thrift shops, do not buy anything that doesn't fit you or goes with with what you have. Treat it like a regular shopping in that respect.

Yeah OP you have a shopping addiction. The whole culture of finding “deals” at thrift stores is 99.9% useless shopping addiction. If you found 10 things at a thrift store from a “luxury” brand, you’d almost certainly be better off buying one thing that actually fits and flatters for full price. It’s not a “deal” because you’ll never resell the thing for anything close to what you think it’s worth.

Yeah, it happens. You might need a major overhaul.

I think this happens to all of us now and then. At least you didn’t spend much on the stuff you’re going to give away. Do a quick analysis of what you do really like and wear, and buy more of that.

No but it sounds like you have a shopping addiction. How do you end up with a wardrobe full of stuff that you at the time you bought it wouldn’t fit you?

And some of it doesn’t even fit me right. I would see a cute top by Joie or similar higher end brand and it wasn’t quite my size but I would buy it anyway because of the deal and the label. And most of the clothes in my closet I sort of hate at this point. Not all of it is thrifted. I just don’t feel right in my clothes anymore and it feels gross. I plan on taking a bunch of stuff to a consignment shop this week and I know I will get next to nothing. Whatever they don’t take will be donated to the humane society thrift store.

Have you ever reached a point where you realize you hate most of your wardrobe?