Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:40     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
DH here: I only slept with one of our six au pairs, so your odds are good it’s not happening.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:39     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
The answer is no, they are not common.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:30     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:No. Young attractive women mostly have no interest in middle aged men.

Tell yourself whatever you need to so you can sleep at night, but life is more nuanced than that. Young or old, most women are looking for a man who is stable and a good provider, especially in this economy with a recession looming. If the married dad still looks pretty good, is affable and wealthy, his age and marital status will be ignored.

Frankly, if you bring a young, gorgeous woman into your home and put her in front of your husband multiple days per week... you're playing with fire. Most husbands love their wives and aren't inclined to cheat, but human beings are flawed.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:21     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I can see how it happens. An attractive 20 year old who is taking good care of your kids. Sex life with the wife may have faltered due to young kids. Doesn’t make it right and the power dynamics are gross, but it isn’t shocking.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:19     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I know someone who married his little brothers au pair. It did not work out.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:18     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
There was a legendary thread on here a few years ago that said “DH is ****ing the Au pair and I’m okay with it.” I can’t find it - must have been nuked
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:18     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I know a mom who hooked up with the Au pair. The Au pair was not hot. I know another Au pair who is stunning. I think pretty much anyone would hook up with her.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:16     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Depends what the man has to offer, especially after a divorce. If his net worth and earning potential will still be high after splitting assets, anything goes.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:13     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:I know an au pair who married the husband. She continued to work cooperatively with both parents to take care of the kids, now as their stepmother.


I just threw up a little.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:09     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
It’s a way for Au Pairs to get a green card
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:08     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I know an au pair who married the husband. She continued to work cooperatively with both parents to take care of the kids, now as their stepmother.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 20:58     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Definitely among husband's who think the au pair is a stunner
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 20:58     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Gross
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 20:58     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
No. Young attractive women mostly have no interest in middle aged men.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 20:51     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Ours is a stunner.