I reinforced night/day from the very beginning so she would learn the difference, even when we were going in every 2-3h. I put her down in her bassinet around 8pm, turned the lights off and sang her a song. Then I would watch with a monitor and go back in (but kinda slow-walk in case it was just loud grunting) if she woke up, but then leave after feeding/diapering, until our own bedtime (bassinet was in our bedroom).