Anonymous wrote:I identify as a straight female. I’m married and enjoy a healthy sex life with my DH. But I’ve always been sexually attracted to women in a different way. I definitely have a “type” and can appreciate a beautiful woman who fits into that category and feel stimulated just by looking at her. I’ve fantasized about women when I’m “alone”. In college I made out with a girl once and found it a lot of fun. But anything waist down is a total turn off for me—I couldn’t be less into it, it does nothing for me. So because of this I’ve never felt bi, but like I said, I’m stimulated by women. So what is this?
I could have written this! I feel the same way. Although I have never made out with a woman and really, really want to. In the past few years (I’m in my late 30s) I’ve noticed I have a “type” of woman I’m attracted to. It all started with a crazy overwhelming, take your breath away- crush on a colleague.