Anonymous wrote:They constantly tell me they want to go out for walks in the park or meals or coffee.

I was sorta believing you until I got tot his part.

Who constantly wants to go on walks or for coffee? What are you talking about?

Did a 13 year old write this?

Anonymous wrote:Oh, this should be fun, LOL.

OP, go on with your bad self. I don't care who you date, but have fun.
early 50's woman here.

I’m 47 but partnered. I’d be nicer to you assuming I’d be getting a break from the throngs of 50 something year old men who want in my pants. You just seem “safe” like a gay man, now, OP. I don’t think this is the flex you’d hoped.

Imagine being this attuned to how “older women react.” I would have thought someone so blissfully happy with this perfect 30 something would tune this all out and not give it a second thought. So bizarre.

Anonymous wrote:Loll. They obviously assume she is your daughter and find it endearing that you’re an involved father, dummy. Are you really this dense?!?

I was thinking the same thing. Are you bald OP?

Anonymous wrote:Loll. They obviously assume she is your daughter and find it endearing that you’re an involved father, dummy. Are you really this dense?!?

I’m more than 20 years younger than you and I’m baffled by this thread. Okay? I’d still think it was weird as hell if my friend was dating someone my dad’s age!

Loll. They obviously assume she is your daughter and find it endearing that you’re an involved father, dummy. Are you really this dense?!?

I would think that you have money and your GF has self esteem or daddy issues.

Anonymous wrote:Op is a beta man to post on here and/or he mistyped and really has a BF rather than a GF.

Is that supposed to be an insult?

Oh, this should be fun, LOL.

OP, go on with your bad self. I don't care who you date, but have fun.
early 50's woman here.

Yawn. No one really cares, OP.

Op is a beta man to post on here and/or he mistyped and really has a BF rather than a GF.

Did you have a question, or just want to boast?

I'm a few years over 50. GF is more than 20 years younger.

Based on conversations I've had with women my own age and based on comments here on DCUM, I figured I'd encounter a lot of hostility or negativity when older women saw me with GF. That hasn't happened much. I'm sure some older women are just being polite and really think I'm a disgusting lech.

But...

I've noticed a lot of older women now smile at me, flirt with me, and even ask me out on "not a date" dates. They constantly tell me they want to go out for walks in the park or meals or coffee. It's pretty obvious that they think I'm more attractive because of GF. I'm talking both about women I know pretty well and about women I don't know but meet briefly in public places.

GF is not a bimbo or a sugar baby. She's smart, accomplished and interesting. She's also very attractive. I guess other women assume that I must have something going for me if I can get a woman like GF.

For the first month or so I was with GF, she became angry when I brought up her age. She said I was being condescending when I talked about the age gap. She said she was attracted to me, she knew what she wanted, and I should respect her. She's a serious person. I think this comes across when we are out in public.