We'll celebrate our 35th anniversary in September. We like to cook and host family and friends often, but we almost never use our beautiful china and crystal. The wedding gifts that we do use frequently -- some almost daily -- are more casual serving pieces, including bowls of all sizes, platters and trays. We also still use a set of copper pots and pans that my HS friends gave us. And, for years, we used the Cuisinart that my godmother gave us; it was a workhorse and when it went to that big appliance garage up in the sky, I immediately replaced it and bought a mini one as well. Our oldest DC and our soon-to-be DIL have been on the wedding guest circuit for the past couple of years. It's been interesting to me that most of their friends have not only not used registries, but have asked that guests forego gifts. For those who have registered, the gifts requested are strictly for casual entertaining.