Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:29     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Anonymous wrote:If I’ve told him what I want and he’s merely conveying the order to the waiter, it’s fine


Yeah, if I need to run to the restroom or step out to take an important call, then he's helping. But in general, I can speak for myself.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:29     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
No, I don’t need someone to speak for me. No need for me to tell my order to him, for him to then convey it to the waiter. Weird. Why do we need the middleman?
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:28     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Did you mean to type “annoying” because I don’t see how this could be “alluring.”
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:26     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
That would demonstrate to me that he was way too conventional to be a good match (for me).
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:26     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Awful. I had a guy do this to me on a date once and it was such a turn off. He casually asked what I was going to have and then when it was time to order went ahead and ordered it for me. I was miffed because I planned to make some kind of modification but didn't get the chance as the waitperson left. Annoying. I can speak for myself.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:25     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Super weird
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:23     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
It’s very sweet!
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:22     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Ew, no. Controlling, absolutely not alluring
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:21     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Yes, and I also love it when he cuts my meat for me, and chews my food for me if it is too tough. I prefer to sit on his lap during meals as well.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:18     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
I find this very sexy! Take charge! Of course, I will convey my order first -- but I like to be ordered "for". And sometimes ordered around
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:13     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Ew no
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:11     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
As long as they ask me what I want first it’s fine.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:11     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
If I’ve told him what I want and he’s merely conveying the order to the waiter, it’s fine
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:08     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
No
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:07     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
I find this somehow charming...yet I know it's odd!