Anonymous
03/26/2023 23:04
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.
A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?
How old are your children? Who will fill your shoes at home? A nanny?
2, 4, and 8. I have local grandparents and 2 is supposed to go to preschool this fall.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 23:03
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Anonymous wrote:It doesn't have to be full time. You have the flexibility to be part time. Best of both worlds.
Hmm, no, it’s definitely a full time job.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 22:30
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
I would totally do this, OP. It opens up so many opportunities including trying it for a year and quitting again if you don't like it. And it fell on your lap. No job hunting and interviewing and all that crap. Also it sounds like you already have the means to outsource cleaning, cooking, etc. You can work 9-5 and still be home with the kids in the evening.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 22:22
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Go for it! The best job I had was when they went after me.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 22:20
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
How old are the kids?
Anonymous
03/26/2023 21:30
Subject: Re:Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Personally I’d take up some hobbies and travel more. But the older I get the less impressed I am by work.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 21:16
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Anonymous wrote:I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.
A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?
How old are your children? Who will fill your shoes at home? A nanny?
Anonymous
03/26/2023 21:13
Subject: Re:Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
I wouldn’t. Part time, yes.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:49
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
It doesn't have to be full time. You have the flexibility to be part time. Best of both worlds.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:46
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
This sounds like a perfect opportunity, assuming that the job has flexibility. You'll probably still be responsible for sick days, professional development days, etc.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:35
Subject: Re:Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Do it. You’re ready!
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:30
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
If it works for you, go for it! Sounds like they really want you and the work is interesting. You’re right—opportunities like this are rare
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:23
Subject: Re:Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
I’m in a similar situation and considering a job. Dabbling at hobbies is not my thing.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:20
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
Do it! You need more stimulation and true 9-5 is great.
Anonymous
03/26/2023 20:17
Subject: Am I crazy to consider going back to work?
I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.
A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?
A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?