Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 15:09     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

No, I don't give my kids anything now and they live with me.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 14:59     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Yup Venmo’s me 1k
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 14:53     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Anonymous wrote:My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.


Have you ever told her to stop? Or do you just expect her to know that from your thank you?
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 14:41     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Anonymous wrote:My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.


This makes me sad. I hope when DD has kids this won’t be her response.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 12:04     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Yep. I still love them. And they still send me a card.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 11:59     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

My Dad sent me a card every single year...but he passed away in October. I put up some of the older ones I still have.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 11:57     Subject: Re:Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Not anymore. Just a family group text message. They have their own spouses/SO's so have someone to celebrate with.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 08:28     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 08:25     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

I'm 48 and my mom sometimes sends me something like chocolate. Not regurlarly though. I don't expect it but it's a nice surprise when she does.
Anonymous
Post 02/16/2023 08:22     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Well my kids are in college, so not sure if that's "grown" enough LOL but I sent them some chocolates.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2023 22:42     Subject: Re:Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

My mom sends me a card. I sent my college age dd 3 boxes of Girl Scout cookies and a card that her younger brother and I made.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2023 22:40     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

I used to. Just a cute card and their favorite candy. I didn’t this year and likely won’t again. He doesn’t seem to care. My daughter might though. Time will tell.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2023 21:52     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Nope.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2023 21:52     Subject: Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

Do you?