Anonymous wrote:OP, I would buy a small home with very low maintenance needs in a low cost of living area. For cash, if you can, so you just have to worry about maintenance and taxes. Somewhere you would be okay living. There are lots of options in different climates and in rural, small town, and even small city environments (larger cities will be more expensive and often have more upkeep concerns). Then I'd treat this as home base, but as your finances allow, go travel to the places you talk about for extended periods.
This is what we are planning to do. We'll have about 800k in proceeds from the sale of our home, so our plan is to by a small two-bedroom somewhere pretty low cost (we want a second bedroom so our DC can visit us comfortably) but hopefully keep the cost to 400k or less so we can bank the rest. We will have a pension and two healthy 401ks, so decent retirement income. If we own our home outright, our housing costs should be pretty static and low, and that will offer us a lot of freedom to do things like spend a month in Spain or go spend the winter in South Florida if we can find a good rental. We hope to spend most of our 60s doing lost of that kind of travel, plus into our 70s with less frequency.
But having a home base in the US with fixed costs that we can always return to is really valuable. If we have health issues, or if our DC starts a family and we want to be closer and more stable for a while to support them, we have somewhere to live.
Who knows, we might even get lucky with the housing market and wind up selling that home for profit again and be able to move somewhere else, maybe closer to our DC or just to try a new place. But the housing market could also tank and we'd be fine because no mortgage -- we just need a place to live.
I would try to plan for your retirement thinking about the range of things you want to do over that 20-30 year period. Being 66 and retired is very different than being 83 and retired. Don't screw over your older self because you were shortsighted.
OP, the last three sentences here are key. My ILs are facing the prospect of running out of money. They've lived an UMC lifestyle for the last 60 years. They "downsized" by square footage but basically traded residences as the buy/sell prices were nearly the same. They spent 10-15 years on pricey winter rentals in Florida (after having already spent ten preceding years in more reasonable ones) as well as expensive vacations ($10-30,000) during that time. They are now in the early to mid 80s and may need more assets than what they have available if they end up not being able to live together in a CCRC. Even if they are able to do so, it's not clear they will be able to cover it. My MiL likes to brag that she is going to take her money with her. Now seems like she will also be taking some of ours.
OP, GL and enjoy!