I chose a charter school we liked over more convenient options for prek3 and prek4.
Like you, we have an inbound that we have the ability to attend for K. Switching from daycare, if needed we could pay a babysitter to pick our kid up while still at the office if the commute was awful. Due to COVID commute times being shorter, a semi flexible schedule, and before/after care this has worked out for us such that we never needed a sitter to do pickup and drop off.
That being said, we are planning to switch next year to our inbound for K and I’m happy to have the extra time we spent commuting back. I would still make the same choice though.
I would still rank the places you like that are further if you are prepared to commute. Just rank them at the end. If you never get into the places that are closer, it becomes a moot point.