It would be hard to quantify a developmental difference for using a size 4 now instead of the size 3. Unbelievably, our travel club lets the kids practice with size 4 balls instead of size 3, and run FUTSAL clinics with size 4 balls, but they use size 3 in the games.
Developmentally it is better to train with the smaller ball, but it's hard to say how much better. I think as long as you are training at home consistently, that is the more important thing! I know this answer is not exactly helpful, however, if I were to buy one for my daughter, I would buy the size 3.