Anonymous wrote:Korean PP here - once I gave a Jewish friend a knife set as a wedding gift. They paid me a dollar for it and explained that if you gift a knife, you risk severing the friendship. It must have worked because we’re still friends!
Koreans have so many superstitions around gift giving. I can’t think of all of them. Like baby showers aren’t a thing there because it would be presumptuous and bring bad luck to give a gift before the baby is delivered healthy and well. Gosh, and we have so many superstitions around pregnancy and childbirth too…
This is prevalent in many Asian cultures. I'm Japanese, and I felt highly uncomfortable when my coworkers organized a surprise baby shower for me. My son was born very premature and has lifelong disabilities from his complicated birth. I have refused to have a shower for my other kids.