burritos/tostadas
Progresso Lentil with Roasted Vegetable Soup (I like it served over brown rice)
Senate Navy bean soup (does include ham)
https://www.senate.gov/about/traditions-symbols/senate-bean-soup.htm
Feijoada (Brazilian black bean and meat stew) - has a lot of meat, but maybe with the beans it would be okay?
Maybe you could try a little bit of spice with something to soften the spice. I like Hormel’s vegetarian chili, and if you serve it over Kraft Mac and cheese, it really cuts the spice, especially as you can adjust the ratio so that it’s mostly mac and cheese topped with just a little chili. You can always adjust the ratio later.