This happened to my sister. They survived. It was an alcohol problem more than anything else. The question is, what do you want? My sister wanted to keep her family together and thought he was worth it when sober (and he wanted to get sober). But she wasn't willing to give him unlimited chances. He's sober a few years now, but if he relapsed, I'm not sure they'd make it a second time. Up to you if your DH is worth it.

Anonymous wrote:I’m do sorry, this must be devastating!

I wouldn’t stay with him, please seek therapy.
I divorced when I was 34, that’s very young, you have time to get what you want but use it wisely.

+1 you are so young

He will not change

Anonymous wrote:I hope you are financially independent, OP, because if he has addiction problems (alcohol addiction, dating addiction), you really need to leave for your own good.

+1

Anonymous wrote:Leave. How is this a question.

+1 I mean this in a nice way, OP.. why do you have such little self respect for yourself?

You get a divorce.

I hope you are financially independent, OP, because if he has addiction problems (alcohol addiction, dating addiction), you really need to leave for your own good.

Yeah, move on.

Leave. How is this a question.

Again? Hell no. What are you sticking around for?

You can’t stop him from cheating or do anything that will prompt him to change. You have to decide if you want to live with it or leave.

I’m do sorry, this must be devastating!

I wouldn’t stay with him, please seek therapy.
I divorced when I was 34, that’s very young, you have time to get what you want but use it wisely.

Does he also have alcohol problems? I'd at least have a divorce consult. He's cheating again. If not, matter of time. I'm sorry OP.

If you’re that young, just leave. No point in dealing with it for the rest of your life.

I'd find myself a divorce lawyer.

He is 34 years old. He has cheated before.
He doesn’t know know. What do I do now?