Anonymous wrote:I believe it is up to parents to hold back and schools to push forward. If someone can have a conversation to the effect of the details you describe above, it would be hard to insist he go forward into 9th grade. He will still legally be the right age (under 21) in 12th grade so it should not really be a problem, perhaps just one person keeping to a certain bureaucracy.
Be nice, but go over the person's head. The request sounds very legitimate. In ES we had an immigrant repeat their overseas grade with a July birthday because of language barrier. Seems more important at high school level