It looks like there are a number of options. With this one you can pay for a service to answer the 911 calls knowing about the memory issues. In any case on many phones you can likit incoming calls to those on the phone’s contacts which could help with blocking scammers.
https://www.razmobility.com/assistive-technology-blog/3-best-phones-for-people-with-dementia-or-alzheimers/