Anonymous wrote:I think there is a lot about people wanting to find a "cause" to blame for the cancer, to avoid feeling so scared and helpless themselves.
I say this, as someone who had a childhood/young adult cancer thats very much not heritable or environmental. People constantly, constantly asked me about that, I am sure to try to put themselves at ease.
I’m the poster above you and I agree. My great-aunt was obsessed with grilling members of my family about possible causes of their cancers. We’ve all had different types. Nothing seems hereditary. Only commonality is stress. I reminded her that even pets and plants develop cancer. If we live long enough, everyone gets cancer.