Anonymous wrote:Fine and dandy but if DC really, really wanted to go, was qualified, and got turned down flat, do you believe that would have no effect on how you or your spouse would feel about the alma mater?
Nope - it would have no effect on our giving at all. In fact, we'd would rather they remove any legacy preferences. We see no reason why they should get a leg up over anyone else just because we went there (and even less because we donate). Kids already have so many advantages from living in a two parent educated family with resources to support their education and interests. They will do perfectly fine where they choose to go and where they are accepted.