Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP your kid has too many activities.
I am of the opinion there should be fewer events or more kids on the teams. This is obviously not a local issue.
For study events 1-3 hours a week of meetings plus study time. The kids aren’t doing a lot of that and I think it’s because they don’t understand how to study. I am trying my best to work with them on how to study but who knows how it will turn out. These children have time for nothing else. I shoo mine outside to have breaks.
My kid joined an elementary team the year that the pandemic began. He learned a lot and learned how to study so much material and take tests quickly in a way that you really don't see in elem/middle school these days. But he never got to compete because our competition takes place in April 2020 so it didn't happen. It was a good experience we both thought, but there were so many things he had to say "no" to and I think he didn't feel it was worth it ultimately, for him. He decided to not join his middle school Science Olympiad because he didn't want to give up opportunities to try other things. Some kids can do it all, but DS is not one of those kids.