Anonymous wrote:FFS, if they wanted to be together they would still be married.

+1

This is not a big deal. You probably should not date someone with kids.

Anonymous wrote:The staying and drinking past 10 pm is inappropriate.

Don't let him or the ex wives of DCUM gaslight you

What would have been an appropriate time, in your opinion?

Anonymous wrote:The staying and drinking past 10 pm is inappropriate.

Don't let him or the ex wives of DCUM gaslight you

100% this. I can hear them circling the wagons already.

“I was ok with it”. As if you have a say in a Dad celebrating his son. WTF.

FFS, if they wanted to be together they would still be married.

The staying and drinking past 10 pm is inappropriate.

Don't let him or the ex wives of DCUM gaslight you

My ex husband is always invited when we have the kids birthday dinners, and we throw joint birthday parties, which he also attends. There is absolutely nothing romantic going on between us, regardless of alcohol.

You know that if he’s going to hook up with his ex, it can happen in the daylight too.

Anonymous wrote:I would be concerned that you are not ready to date a father with family obligations.

+1

How old is his son? Was this a real party, with people other than ex, son and your bf? How many hours was he there?

Does he normally not drink? What’s the problem?

What is the concern? It sounds like he was hanging out at his son’s birthday party. He was honest with you. I would be thrilled he and his ex are on good terms. Speaks a lot to his (and her) maturity and ability to co-parent.

I would be concerned that you are not ready to date a father with family obligations.

Concerned about what?

What do you think? My bf went over his ex wife to celebrate his sons bday. I was okay with it and understand he needs to celebrate his son until i find out he drank there and stayed past 10pm. Should I be concerned?