Anonymous wrote: Sorry to hear that about your senior year. Hope things got better in college.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for your comments!! I have a kid who was accepted to Blair and RMIB and is attending RMIB.
How was the workload? That is her biggest concern.
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It varied a lot. There was some homework that had to be turned in the next day, and other things had longer deadlines. We definitely learned time management very well. People would juggle school and sports and jobs and music and all sorts of extracurricular activities. It gets hectic junior and senior year when you've got the EE and college apps, but it was bearable. There were people who did their homework on the bus to/from school, at lunch, during dinner breaks or when they weren't doing things at tech rehearsals for drama. But honestly, even though it was stressful at the time, college was much easier than IB — I'm not sure if this is because of different workloads or from the time management skills we developed, but almost everyone I've talked to has had this experience.
My advice is to keep the big picture in mind. In the long term, an assignment or quiz doesn't matter as much as your mental health and keeping a healthy work-life balance. My personal philosophy was that if I didn't finish whatever I was working on by 1 a.m., I was going to bed because no school assignment was worth sacrificing my mental health. Besides, if you don't understand material in a sleep-deprived state at 1 a.m., what makes you think you'll understand it in an even more sleep-deprived state at 4 a.m.?
I keep hearing this over and over, as well.
I have an incoming senior at RMIB. DC is finding the work to be not that difficult, just a lot. From EE to IA to regular HW, and then extra curriculars and wanting some down time... it's a lot. I don't know about OP, but from what DC has told me, a lot of kids also procrastinate and goof off a lot (not that I blame them) when they should be focused, and that's part of the reason why they go to bed so late.
I don't expect my DC to attend an Ivy. DC isn't even going to bother with applying to those schools, but when all is said and done, I know that DC got the best education in HS that DC could've gotten, and it will help DC at college. Hopefully like OP and others, DC will find college easier than most which will give DC some breathing room to do other things.
If DC was going to go through a stressful time in academics, I'd rather it be at home where DC has family to support them rather than off at college where there is no family support around.
I don't know about other families or IB students, but DC told me that they are so glad they chose IB. Made some good friends, too.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for your comments!! I have a kid who was accepted to Blair and RMIB and is attending RMIB.
How was the workload? That is her biggest concern.
I found the quote button![]()
It varied a lot. There was some homework that had to be turned in the next day, and other things had longer deadlines. We definitely learned time management very well. People would juggle school and sports and jobs and music and all sorts of extracurricular activities. It gets hectic junior and senior year when you've got the EE and college apps, but it was bearable. There were people who did their homework on the bus to/from school, at lunch, during dinner breaks or when they weren't doing things at tech rehearsals for drama. But honestly, even though it was stressful at the time, college was much easier than IB — I'm not sure if this is because of different workloads or from the time management skills we developed, but almost everyone I've talked to has had this experience.
My advice is to keep the big picture in mind. In the long term, an assignment or quiz doesn't matter as much as your mental health and keeping a healthy work-life balance. My personal philosophy was that if I didn't finish whatever I was working on by 1 a.m., I was going to bed because no school assignment was worth sacrificing my mental health. Besides, if you don't understand material in a sleep-deprived state at 1 a.m., what makes you think you'll understand it in an even more sleep-deprived state at 4 a.m.?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you think completing the RMIB program was ‘worth it’? All the time and stress?
You were likely a motivated student anyway. Would you have done just as well without going through the RMIB program?
Or, in other words, what benefit would you say the RMIB provided?
This question is always hard to answer because it depends on what you’re looking for. Some people go into the program expecting to guarantee acceptance to Harvard or another top tier school. Others want a challenge or to improve their writing. I wanted the best education that I could get.
I go back and forth on if it was “worth it” a lot. I definitely got a good education. Sometimes I was shocked at the quality of writing my peers produced in college and thankful for IB in that standard. I’m not sure I would’ve gotten a full scholarship if I went anywhere else for high school. I didn’t apply to any Ivies (looked more at liberal arts colleges) so I won’t speculate about that. Maybe I would’ve enjoyed being the cream of the crop elsewhere more than the middle of the pack at RMIB.
I was terribly depressed during senior year from a combination of college apps, family issues, relationship drama, and some other stuff. My grades were slipping and I dreaded going to school because I felt like I didn’t have friends. Maybe that wouldn’t have happened if I went somewhere else, but maybe it would’ve been even worse. I don’t know. When I graduated, all I felt was relief that it was over. I got the fantastic education that I wanted but I also left feeling empty.
Anonymous wrote:When I graduated, all I felt was relief that it was over. I got the fantastic education that I wanted but I also left feeling empty.
Anonymous wrote:Do you think completing the RMIB program was ‘worth it’? All the time and stress?
You were likely a motivated student anyway. Would you have done just as well without going through the RMIB program?
Or, in other words, what benefit would you say the RMIB provided?
Anonymous wrote:Thank you for your comments!! I have a kid who was accepted to Blair and RMIB and is attending RMIB.
How was the workload? That is her biggest concern.