Anonymous wrote:My post that OP found helpful was deleted, but I did want to say that consent is really important there. They asked my daughter for permission and then walked her through the process and told what they were going to for each step. I believe that if at any point she had said no or started crying, they would have stopped immediately. They are professionals and take their jobs very seriously.
+1 they very deliberately ask the child for consent. DD 12 and I had an awesome conversation after about why that was important.
My DD has severe anxiety and had a very good experience. Both done at the same time, they told her what they were doing so she didn’t have to anticipate.