I have the same problem op. I have these and they go with a lot of things.
https://www.dsw.com/en/us/product/naturalizer-vivienne-ballet-flat/482930
I don’t wear standard dress heels anymore, anywhere, but I don’t wear sneakers or Birkenstocks to work either.
Pay for some more comfortable but professional, supportive dress shoes. Loafers, supportive low heels with chunkier bottom heels that are below 1” are fine.
I’ve had good luck with Naturalizer, Frye boots, and things that are rated well for comfort. ( Cole Haan, etc)