Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:31     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Sure OP, as long as he is willing to work with a therapist. Most of us who are "aspie'" were never diagnosed and our parents just told us we were jerks, at least in my case.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:28     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:And suddenly it all makes sense. The irritableness, the angry outburst in traffic, the lack of patience, the lack of empathy, the long monologues on obscure topics, the robotic sex

Is there any hope?


If he wasn't like that before, may be he is depressed and this behavior is reactionary? Encourage him to see a therapist.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:28     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:Some people on this thread may not be "aspie" but they have some kind of cognitive issues regarding understanding a wedding vow that THEY MADE. "Hey, I was just saying that to get married. Now that I realize my DH is 'an aspie' I'm going to get a divorce. No big deal."



No one else has brought up the word "divorce" but you. No one else. Just you.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:27     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:And suddenly it all makes sense. The irritableness, the angry outburst in traffic, the lack of patience, the lack of empathy, the long monologues on obscure topics, the robotic sex

Is there any hope?


If he doesn't believe he is on the Autism spectrum ( not Aspie anymore) than no.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:26     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:He just sounds like a jerk No need to take diagnose him


Says an aspie.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:24     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
He just sounds like a jerk No need to take diagnose him
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:24     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Some people on this thread may not be "aspie" but they have some kind of cognitive issues regarding understanding a wedding vow that THEY MADE. "Hey, I was just saying that to get married. Now that I realize my DH is 'an aspie' I'm going to get a divorce. No big deal."
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:22     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:Leave OP alone, I got married young and had no idea what was normal and what wasn't now I'm in the same situation as OP.


That’s on you.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:15     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Leave OP alone, I got married young and had no idea what was normal and what wasn't now I'm in the same situation as OP.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:07     Subject: Re:I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:Pretty clueless of you not to have figured this out before you married him. Too bad!


This. Did you all not sit in traffic before marriage? Did you not have sex before marriage? All of a sudden, all this bothers you?
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:06     Subject: Re:I think my husband is an aspie
Anonymous wrote:Pretty clueless of you not to have figured this out before you married him. Too bad!


Wow, so mean! Lol
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:06     Subject: Re:I think my husband is an aspie
Pretty clueless of you not to have figured this out before you married him. Too bad!
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:05     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
Do you have kids? If not, get a divorce. It doesn’t get easier.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:04     Subject: Re:I think my husband is an aspie
Hope for what?
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2022 12:02     Subject: I think my husband is an aspie
And suddenly it all makes sense. The irritableness, the angry outburst in traffic, the lack of patience, the lack of empathy, the long monologues on obscure topics, the robotic sex

Is there any hope?