Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 09:32     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

My mom read them when they came out on a recommendation. I think she’s still traumatized from the experience. There’s no way she would have let me read them as a teen. I wasn’t even allowed to read Harlequins.

On the other hand, I’m a big wimpy chicken, and as an adult I’ve had no desire to read those books. Moreover, I was such a bookworm, Mom’s biggest concern with my reading was getting me to put my book down.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 09:08     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I started reading John Saul’s books when I was in 5th grade. Scared the bejeezus out of myself and loved it. Parents paid too little attention to have any idea what I was reading.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 09:06     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

Why do we need a spin off? everyone said in the other thread that they read VC Andrews. My parents did not censor my reading or music and we don't censor my kids' (10 and 12) reading or music.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 09:03     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I don't think my parents ever cared what I read. There was once when my whole family teased me remorselessly when I read a romance novel ("Savage Surrender") but otherwise I could have read Mein Kampf for all they cared.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:59     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

Anonymous wrote:I read them all. My Mother had no idea what I was reading. I was also reading Stephen King and James Herbert in my early teens. I’m not a psychopath.


+1

My parents didn't "let" me read anything. I don't think they had any clue what I was reading at any given time. Everything I read, I got from the library or passed along from a friend.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:57     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

My parents were in the "if you can read it you may read it" camp. I"m the same with my teen.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:55     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

Yes, I was in middle school. I don’t think my parents really knew what the content was.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:17     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I read all of them in middle school! My parents didn’t monitor what I read at all and I think it was the right approach. I read so many books and these were just some of them.

That said, these are some messed up stories! I watched Lifetime’s movie versions and they are so creepy! The books were definitely strange but the movies are worse.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:06     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

This. And read “Helter Skelter” (true crime—Manson murders—got me barred from one friend’s home at 14)
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:05     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

Yes. I think I was in high school? They had no clue what was in the books. I don’t really even remember being shocked by it. Maybe some of it went over my head? Was the language explicit?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:03     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I read them all. My Mother had no idea what I was reading. I was also reading Stephen King and James Herbert in my early teens. I’m not a psychopath.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:03     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I did. I LOVED those books. I was a voracious reader back then. Nothing was off limits. I have always let my 15 yo DD read whatever she wants.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 08:02     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

5th grade teacher called home to discuss my inappropriate reading material with my parents. I’d gotten the book from my mom’s bookshelf/ I read everything in the house, from that to my brothers Star Trek books. I can’t remember what happened after the call, but I don’t think my parents cared.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 07:58     Subject: Re:Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

I read every single one! I can't imagine censoring my kid's reading or music, even when I disagree. But ugh - the rap music of my teen son is really the thing that makes me reconsider the position.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2022 07:56     Subject: Spin-off of monitoring teen reading. Did you parents let you read VC Andrews?

Incest, rape romance and smut. That’s how my summers were spent 86-90 as a young teen. Anyone else read VC Andrews? My mom bought me the books. What the hell was she thinking? I guess it did get me to read 😂