Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:17     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
My sibling received an inheritance that I didn't because of special needs. They were embarrassed and ended up splitting it with me.

I would do it evenly, just to keep peace in the family.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:16     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?


Why would you leave the other grandkids out of your will? How unfair. Why this favoritism?


This grandson will need the money. The others can get the money from their paren5ts when they die.


And what makes you think the other grandkids DON'T need the money?

I would hate to be the left out grandkid.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:15     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:It’s your money, but this is the kind of thing that tears families apart. I’ve seen it happen several times in my own extended family. I’d split it equally.


This.

And if you do leave him more, leave it in a trust and have someone else be the trustee
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:15     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?


Why would you leave the other grandkids out of your will? How unfair. Why this favoritism?

Fair doesn’t mean equal. It’s always shocking this has to be said.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:14     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?


Why would you leave the other grandkids out of your will? How unfair. Why this favoritism?


This grandson will need the money. The others can get the money from their parents when they die.


When they die .. what if their parents spend it all on themselves?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:10     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?


Why would you leave the other grandkids out of your will? How unfair. Why this favoritism?


This grandson will need the money. The others can get the money from their parents when they die.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:10     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Of course!
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:08     Subject: Re:Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:I would put into a trust for his benefit.

If your estate is sizable, I would pay for college for the others.

This. There are special needs trusts. Be clear with your wishes now and in your will. I actually don’t think estates must always be equal when not everyone’s needs are equal. This is a great example of why.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:08     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?


Why would you leave the other grandkids out of your will? How unfair. Why this favoritism?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:05     Subject: Re:Can I leave only one grand child money?
I would put into a trust for his benefit.

If your estate is sizable, I would pay for college for the others.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:05     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
It’s your money, but this is the kind of thing that tears families apart. I’ve seen it happen several times in my own extended family. I’d split it equally.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 13:04     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Anonymous wrote:You can do whatever you want with your money but why would you leave the other grandkids out in light of a sizeable estate? Why create unnecessary animosity in the family?


I could but it still will be more that I leave to the one grandson. Or do you think I should leave equal amounts?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 12:57     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
You can do whatever you want with your money but why would you leave the other grandkids out in light of a sizeable estate? Why create unnecessary animosity in the family?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 12:57     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
Sure. It's your money, you can do whatever you want with it. And it's no one else's business.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2022 12:54     Subject: Can I leave only one grand child money?
I have 2 sons and each son has 2 kids. One grandson has mild autism. He graduated high school, got a job which he quit amd will be starting an apprenticeship.

Should I split my sizeable will 1/3 to each son and 1/3 to this grandson?