Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

+1 I always like seeing people, regardless of gender, making the best of what they've got.

I used to when I was young and healthy, but neither situation is true for me know so I get it.

I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

The truth is that if someone is conventionally unattractive but has confidence, personality and a good figure then it really doesn’t matter much what the face & hair look like.

There’s a long list of people with unattractive faces but who are successful and happy in life.

I mean, attractiveness is by nature subjective, so judging someone for being unattractive to you is especially bizarre because it's so arbitrary.

I am most attracted to men who don't go bald. So I just don't date guys who are bald. I don't judge them. I'm just not attracted to them. See how that works?

Anonymous wrote:No, because I've found that unattractive women often have offsetting attributes that attractive women have never felt the need to cultivate.

I'm very ugly and very funny.

Are you attractive or unattractive OP? Maybe these posters are missing the message.

No, because I've found that unattractive women often have offsetting attributes that attractive women have never felt the need to cultivate.

No, I admire them.

Anonymous wrote:Title says it all

Disgusting troll post.

Go away!

I remember having a coworker who was ugly, but she got loads of attention from all the men in the office. I told my friend this, and they said, "Her parents did something right."

???

I do not judge people for things they cannot help.
Moreover, "attractive" is very subjective. I'm sure we don't have the same views on the topic.

Seems like one of those basic moral principles you acquire early on in life, no?

I do not. As a society, if we keep making women's most value trait their appearance, women will always be first objects for men. Once we start valuing women as people first, then we have a better chance of equality amongst the sexes.

This is especially true at work. If I see a woman trying to use her appearance to get ahead, I immediately think less of her. I will promote/support the average/ugly woman who is there and can do the work.

Why would you ask this question. The answer to all these types of questions is some do and some don't, but why would you care?

Title says it all