Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Anonymous wrote:

Ideally I need my future husband in a 300K+ income bracket, to "restore" the lifestyle I had prior to my divorce.

Ah, nothing impresses a man more than a woman’s need to spend his money.

He will be equally spending my money on joint accounts , not sure what the issue is as long as we are aligned about how to spend joint $600k. A couple in 600k breaker can afford a way better lifestyle than a single person at 300k

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like most UMC men will make at least $300k. That should not be hard.

All women's dating experience on this thread sounds depressing: men without houses, no money for gas even etc. Is it a good taste to be upfront with financial expectations on my dating profile?

No, it isn’t in good taste. You will likely be alone forever.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

Ideally I need my future husband in a 300K+ income bracket, to "restore" the lifestyle I had prior to my divorce.

Ah, nothing impresses a man more than a woman’s need to spend his money.

Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

Anonymous wrote:I feel like most UMC men will make at least $300k. That should not be hard.

All women's dating experience on this thread sounds depressing: men without houses, no money for gas even etc. Is it a good taste to be upfront with financial expectations on my dating profile?

Anonymous wrote:What has your dating life been like so far? Do the opposite of what you're currently doing

I am not particular doing anything. I just go places with my grown up son, parents, travel, do minimal cosmetic procedures to become the best version of myself (lipo, sports, massages). I have a suitor but he's not compatible socially so I don't plan anything serious on that front. It's a much younger man. He makes a lot as AC specialist/general contractor but he's not a reader or world traveler. I would be miserable with someone limited like that, but we do have sex once in a while

I feel like most UMC men will make at least $300k. That should not be hard.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a real charmer.

Why? I simply look for a financially equal man of roughly my age/could be max 10 years older, not burdened by obligations

Good luck with that.

What has your dating life been like so far? Do the opposite of what you're currently doing

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a real charmer.

Why? I simply look for a financially equal man of roughly my age/could be max 10 years older, not burdened by obligations

You sound like a real charmer.

I am a woman in early 40s, recently divorced. Not looking to remarry immediately, I just date. But if I was to remarry, it would need to be someone "financially compatible". I have a net worth if $3.5mm (primarily real estate trust-like managed arrangement). No financial obligations except for a very small mortgage (net worth counted after mortgage).

My trust makes around 250k/year. I also work full time at a fed contractor making 100K/year at a contracting position. I am not particular career oriented as I already make enough for single lifestyle. Basically it's like having 2 jobs with gross total income 300-350k depending on a year. Ideally I need my future husband in a 300K+ income bracket, to "restore" the lifestyle I had prior to my divorce. I had a comfortable income with exH at 700-$1mm/year. I like traveling to Europe, skiing, nice clothing, restaurants etc. I would want to mix the income which has to be roughly equal, without mixing our pre-marital assets. That way we both could step up our joint lifestyle and afford more as a couple plus benefit on joint taxes (every economist knows "economy of scale" principle). Of course, we could buy another joint property or start some joint business in real estate which I am very familiar with

My partner would need to have a similar life style: e.g. not being cheap, willing to mix incomes but not assets, like art in other words being accustomed to this lifestyle. I can't imagine arguing about things which I can somewhat afford myself already. I am a member of a country club (where everyone seems married); a sport club, travel every season for 2 weeks on average; go out to nice restaurants.

Is it realistic to find a partner like this? How would I "weed out" those under the parameters I am looking for? Are there dating platforms for wealthier people? I am not on any app at the moment, would it be a poor taste to put the requirements on the profile?