Anonymous wrote:You aren’t asking for too much. Did you pay the deposit before or after the litter was born? If before, I’d need confirmation that there was definitely a puppy for me in this litter. A few photos of the litter are reasonable and should either be posted to their website/Facebook or emailed to you.
I would be fine not knowing which puppy was mine. When I got my pup it wasn’t confirmed until 8 weeks when she did temperament testing and I finally knew which one matched the characteristics I was looking for.
The breeder should be upfront about it. We were sent pictures of each puppy and a video (and she gave us first pick). I wanted a specific gender and color. They are all about similar in personality/temperament but we choose that with the breed. But, you at least had confirmation you'd be getting a puppy. Most puppies go home at 8-10 weeks. OP has no real anything.
We have pictures of our puppy, basically updates - food, etc. and a pick up date. She also was one of the few that would talk to us on the phone when we were originally looking and spent a lot of time talking to us.