Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our daughter went to Wakefield for freshman year before we moved out of the area. Like so many things in life everyone has a different experience. So, please take our experience as just a single point of view.
How our daughter identifies: conservative, outgoing, involved
The good: dd took AP World History and this was probably the most valuable class she took in all of high school. It was challenging and involves many hours of work outside of class. She gained a confidence in how to write essays for AP classes, how to answer questions for AP classes and how to manage her time. This has continued to benefit her even now that she is in college. All of dd's teachers were great. They all taught with passion, encouraged discussions and were available to students outside of class time.
The bad (for dd): At the time dd was at Wakefield the students were rumored to be open and inclusive to all. And from what we observed that was true unless you wanted to be a a conservative heterosexual. DD was constantly questioned on how she knew she was hereosexual. She was repeatedly asked to go to the restroom at lunch with girls to try out the other side. It seemed like the group she had lunch with were challenged with converting her. It got to the point that she ended up eating lunch in a teacher's room everyday.
Your daughter was a homophobe and her peers were calling her out on it.
Anonymous wrote:Our daughter went to Wakefield for freshman year before we moved out of the area. Like so many things in life everyone has a different experience. So, please take our experience as just a single point of view.
How our daughter identifies: conservative, outgoing, involved
The good: dd took AP World History and this was probably the most valuable class she took in all of high school. It was challenging and involves many hours of work outside of class. She gained a confidence in how to write essays for AP classes, how to answer questions for AP classes and how to manage her time. This has continued to benefit her even now that she is in college. All of dd's teachers were great. They all taught with passion, encouraged discussions and were available to students outside of class time.
The bad (for dd): At the time dd was at Wakefield the students were rumored to be open and inclusive to all. And from what we observed that was true unless you wanted to be a a conservative heterosexual. DD was constantly questioned on how she knew she was hereosexual. She was repeatedly asked to go to the restroom at lunch with girls to try out the other side. It seemed like the group she had lunch with were challenged with converting her. It got to the point that she ended up eating lunch in a teacher's room everyday.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:AP Geography is also offered to freshman.
The AP Network they advertise is not an actual thing. It just means that the school offers AP classes.
Our kid is a junior. It's a pretty poor educational experience and if we had had the option of sending them to W-L would have taken it in a heartbeat.
The AP classes and intensified classes are ok but any student can sign up for them so there are still a lot of disruptive students in them which is a pain.
The teachers have been ok - some great -some so/so - like any high school.
They encourage participation in sports and clubs for students.
The do very little in terms of preparing students for college. We hired a private college counselor. We got the name from other parents.
They are very big on sending kids to NOVA. They push it constantly.
The PTA finally sponsored a mock SAT test this year. I am pretty sure it was the first time. Yorktown seems to offer them on the regular every year for comparison.
Lots and lots and lots of talk about equity and inclusion. Very little conversation on academics or academic achievement. This is from both the admin side at school and from the parent side. Sometimes I wonder if they remember that it's actually a school and the point is education not a nonprofit dedicated to social justice.
While there is a lot of promotion of NOVA, that's because almost half the school is potential first-generation college and students with limited financial means. It's not like it's a bad thing to promote, especially since it also promotes the "early start" program and other opportunities that require a 3.0 GPA to participate in. Nevertheless, if you're not in that particular demographic, you can easily plan and get information and assistance for the colleges you're interested in. College and military representatives visit the school throughout the year and lots of scholarship opportunities are also promoted - many are specific to students of color; but again, the majority of students are students of color and that's a good thing to be encouraging.
The PTA doesn't have the resources of Yorktown; but Yorktown tends to open up its mock exams and other programs to all the high school communities.
If you're hiring a private college counselor, you're likely someone who would do that even if your kid were at WL or YHS.
I agree the AP Network isn't a big deal - though I honestly don't really get what it is; but the AP Capstone is a positive and they have a sufficient offering of AP classes relative to the other schools. There is a great deal of equity and inclusion speak and the teachers and students clearly lean pretty far left politically (like a lot of Arlington).
If you want a more pressure-cooker atmosphere for your child, WL is your best bet. If you're not so uptight about your kid taking 5 AP classes at once and being on the most competitive teams and accept that a less-pressure, less-competitive, still-among-the-top-2% of high schools in the country is perfectly fine and won't ruin your child's entire future, Wakefield is absolutely fine.
Parents not talking and boasting about their kids' extraordinary brilliance and academic achievement doesn't mean they do not emphasize academics or believe them to be important. Personally, I'm grateful not to be surrounded by competitive parents living vicariously through their children, stressing their kids out, and insisting anything less than the best and an ivy league degree is failure. I can't speak to the level of anxiety or pressure at Yorktown; but even though WL is an excellent school, I find the Wakefield environment pleasantly less stressful for us as parents and for our kid v. our kid and others we know at WL.
We have not heard of any problems with "disruptive" kids in any of our kid's classes of any level. I'm not aware of policies at any of the schools precluding students from taking an AP class - all students register for classes through their counselor and teachers make recommendations; but you can always discuss those recommendations with the teachers if you disagree. Generally, though, if a student is a good student and performing well, they will be recommended for the appropriate level courses.
I also much prefer the "senior project" over the "senior experience" at the other high schools. It's a year long project of the student's choosing with a "mentor" guiding them along the way, culminating in a written piece and a presentation.
Since the poster asked for real world experiences, not a bunch of fluff to promote the school -
Wakefield could never be a pressure cooker. It can't even be a boiling pot. Maybe not even a simmering pot. The academic expectations are low even in the AP and Intensified classes. So stop making it about pressure cooker and start listening to parents who have the average, in the middle kids. We are just trying to get a decent, appropriate high school level education for our kids to prepare them to actually go to college, and be able to do the work once there.
Writing is non existent. I feel terrible for kids who go off to college who never received any outside preparation. Can you image getting slammed with writing multi-page papers in freshman year but your only experience was writing one 5 paragraph essay in your entire high school career?
Nothing wrong with NOVA except first gen students can and should be offered the chance to go to 4 yr colleges right out of high school. It takes help and planning to find the right fit for them. No one has time for that. NOVA is easier.
Most of the scholarships announcements that are sent out are nothing more than a lottery. Send in a bunch of essays and recommendations, wait months and months, and nothing. Or maybe $500. Never once I have seen any helpful information regarding merit aid, why it matters, how to get it, how to target schools most likely to provide it to a student.
The college counselor we hired isn't to get our kid into an ivy league. It is to help them apply to public universities, understand the application process, help with their essay, and stay on track. It doesn't matter if the counselors are nice at the school, they have a lot of students with a lot of issues. They don't have time to really discuss college or the college process. It's not their fault. It's just how it is.
Anonymous wrote:Our daughter went to Wakefield for freshman year before we moved out of the area. Like so many things in life everyone has a different experience. So, please take our experience as just a single point of view.
How our daughter identifies: conservative, outgoing, involved
The good: dd took AP World History and this was probably the most valuable class she took in all of high school. It was challenging and involves many hours of work outside of class. She gained a confidence in how to write essays for AP classes, how to answer questions for AP classes and how to manage her time. This has continued to benefit her even now that she is in college. All of dd's teachers were great. They all taught with passion, encouraged discussions and were available to students outside of class time.
The bad (for dd): At the time dd was at Wakefield the students were rumored to be open and inclusive to all. And from what we observed that was true unless you wanted to be a a conservative heterosexual. DD was constantly questioned on how she knew she was hereosexual. She was repeatedly asked to go to the restroom at lunch with girls to try out the other side. It seemed like the group she had lunch with were challenged with converting her. It got to the point that she ended up eating lunch in a teacher's room everyday.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:AP Geography is also offered to freshman.
The AP Network they advertise is not an actual thing. It just means that the school offers AP classes.
Our kid is a junior. It's a pretty poor educational experience and if we had had the option of sending them to W-L would have taken it in a heartbeat.
The AP classes and intensified classes are ok but any student can sign up for them so there are still a lot of disruptive students in them which is a pain.
The teachers have been ok - some great -some so/so - like any high school.
They encourage participation in sports and clubs for students.
The do very little in terms of preparing students for college. We hired a private college counselor. We got the name from other parents.
They are very big on sending kids to NOVA. They push it constantly.
The PTA finally sponsored a mock SAT test this year. I am pretty sure it was the first time. Yorktown seems to offer them on the regular every year for comparison.
Lots and lots and lots of talk about equity and inclusion. Very little conversation on academics or academic achievement. This is from both the admin side at school and from the parent side. Sometimes I wonder if they remember that it's actually a school and the point is education not a nonprofit dedicated to social justice.
While there is a lot of promotion of NOVA, that's because almost half the school is potential first-generation college and students with limited financial means. It's not like it's a bad thing to promote, especially since it also promotes the "early start" program and other opportunities that require a 3.0 GPA to participate in. Nevertheless, if you're not in that particular demographic, you can easily plan and get information and assistance for the colleges you're interested in. College and military representatives visit the school throughout the year and lots of scholarship opportunities are also promoted - many are specific to students of color; but again, the majority of students are students of color and that's a good thing to be encouraging.
The PTA doesn't have the resources of Yorktown; but Yorktown tends to open up its mock exams and other programs to all the high school communities.
If you're hiring a private college counselor, you're likely someone who would do that even if your kid were at WL or YHS.
I agree the AP Network isn't a big deal - though I honestly don't really get what it is; but the AP Capstone is a positive and they have a sufficient offering of AP classes relative to the other schools. There is a great deal of equity and inclusion speak and the teachers and students clearly lean pretty far left politically (like a lot of Arlington).
If you want a more pressure-cooker atmosphere for your child, WL is your best bet. If you're not so uptight about your kid taking 5 AP classes at once and being on the most competitive teams and accept that a less-pressure, less-competitive, still-among-the-top-2% of high schools in the country is perfectly fine and won't ruin your child's entire future, Wakefield is absolutely fine.
Parents not talking and boasting about their kids' extraordinary brilliance and academic achievement doesn't mean they do not emphasize academics or believe them to be important. Personally, I'm grateful not to be surrounded by competitive parents living vicariously through their children, stressing their kids out, and insisting anything less than the best and an ivy league degree is failure. I can't speak to the level of anxiety or pressure at Yorktown; but even though WL is an excellent school, I find the Wakefield environment pleasantly less stressful for us as parents and for our kid v. our kid and others we know at WL.
We have not heard of any problems with "disruptive" kids in any of our kid's classes of any level. I'm not aware of policies at any of the schools precluding students from taking an AP class - all students register for classes through their counselor and teachers make recommendations; but you can always discuss those recommendations with the teachers if you disagree. Generally, though, if a student is a good student and performing well, they will be recommended for the appropriate level courses.
I also much prefer the "senior project" over the "senior experience" at the other high schools. It's a year long project of the student's choosing with a "mentor" guiding them along the way, culminating in a written piece and a presentation.
Since the poster asked for real world experiences, not a bunch of fluff to promote the school -
Wakefield could never be a pressure cooker. It can't even be a boiling pot. Maybe not even a simmering pot. The academic expectations are low even in the AP and Intensified classes. So stop making it about pressure cooker and start listening to parents who have the average, in the middle kids. We are just trying to get a decent, appropriate high school level education for our kids to prepare them to actually go to college, and be able to do the work once there.
Writing is non existent. I feel terrible for kids who go off to college who never received any outside preparation. Can you image getting slammed with writing multi-page papers in freshman year but your only experience was writing one 5 paragraph essay in your entire high school career?
Nothing wrong with NOVA except first gen students can and should be offered the chance to go to 4 yr colleges right out of high school. It takes help and planning to find the right fit for them. No one has time for that. NOVA is easier.
Most of the scholarships announcements that are sent out are nothing more than a lottery. Send in a bunch of essays and recommendations, wait months and months, and nothing. Or maybe $500. Never once I have seen any helpful information regarding merit aid, why it matters, how to get it, how to target schools most likely to provide it to a student.
The college counselor we hired isn't to get our kid into an ivy league. It is to help them apply to public universities, understand the application process, help with their essay, and stay on track. It doesn't matter if the counselors are nice at the school, they have a lot of students with a lot of issues. They don't have time to really discuss college or the college process. It's not their fault. It's just how it is.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:AP Geography is also offered to freshman.
The AP Network they advertise is not an actual thing. It just means that the school offers AP classes.
Our kid is a junior. It's a pretty poor educational experience and if we had had the option of sending them to W-L would have taken it in a heartbeat.
The AP classes and intensified classes are ok but any student can sign up for them so there are still a lot of disruptive students in them which is a pain.
The teachers have been ok - some great -some so/so - like any high school.
They encourage participation in sports and clubs for students.
The do very little in terms of preparing students for college. We hired a private college counselor. We got the name from other parents.
They are very big on sending kids to NOVA. They push it constantly.
The PTA finally sponsored a mock SAT test this year. I am pretty sure it was the first time. Yorktown seems to offer them on the regular every year for comparison.
Lots and lots and lots of talk about equity and inclusion. Very little conversation on academics or academic achievement. This is from both the admin side at school and from the parent side. Sometimes I wonder if they remember that it's actually a school and the point is education not a nonprofit dedicated to social justice.
While there is a lot of promotion of NOVA, that's because almost half the school is potential first-generation college and students with limited financial means. It's not like it's a bad thing to promote, especially since it also promotes the "early start" program and other opportunities that require a 3.0 GPA to participate in. Nevertheless, if you're not in that particular demographic, you can easily plan and get information and assistance for the colleges you're interested in. College and military representatives visit the school throughout the year and lots of scholarship opportunities are also promoted - many are specific to students of color; but again, the majority of students are students of color and that's a good thing to be encouraging.
The PTA doesn't have the resources of Yorktown; but Yorktown tends to open up its mock exams and other programs to all the high school communities.
If you're hiring a private college counselor, you're likely someone who would do that even if your kid were at WL or YHS.
I agree the AP Network isn't a big deal - though I honestly don't really get what it is; but the AP Capstone is a positive and they have a sufficient offering of AP classes relative to the other schools. There is a great deal of equity and inclusion speak and the teachers and students clearly lean pretty far left politically (like a lot of Arlington).
If you want a more pressure-cooker atmosphere for your child, WL is your best bet. If you're not so uptight about your kid taking 5 AP classes at once and being on the most competitive teams and accept that a less-pressure, less-competitive, still-among-the-top-2% of high schools in the country is perfectly fine and won't ruin your child's entire future, Wakefield is absolutely fine.
Parents not talking and boasting about their kids' extraordinary brilliance and academic achievement doesn't mean they do not emphasize academics or believe them to be important. Personally, I'm grateful not to be surrounded by competitive parents living vicariously through their children, stressing their kids out, and insisting anything less than the best and an ivy league degree is failure. I can't speak to the level of anxiety or pressure at Yorktown; but even though WL is an excellent school, I find the Wakefield environment pleasantly less stressful for us as parents and for our kid v. our kid and others we know at WL.
We have not heard of any problems with "disruptive" kids in any of our kid's classes of any level. I'm not aware of policies at any of the schools precluding students from taking an AP class - all students register for classes through their counselor and teachers make recommendations; but you can always discuss those recommendations with the teachers if you disagree. Generally, though, if a student is a good student and performing well, they will be recommended for the appropriate level courses.
I also much prefer the "senior project" over the "senior experience" at the other high schools. It's a year long project of the student's choosing with a "mentor" guiding them along the way, culminating in a written piece and a presentation.
Anonymous wrote:AP Geography is also offered to freshman.
The AP Network they advertise is not an actual thing. It just means that the school offers AP classes.
Our kid is a junior. It's a pretty poor educational experience and if we had had the option of sending them to W-L would have taken it in a heartbeat.
The AP classes and intensified classes are ok but any student can sign up for them so there are still a lot of disruptive students in them which is a pain.
The teachers have been ok - some great -some so/so - like any high school.
They encourage participation in sports and clubs for students.
The do very little in terms of preparing students for college. We hired a private college counselor. We got the name from other parents.
They are very big on sending kids to NOVA. They push it constantly.
The PTA finally sponsored a mock SAT test this year. I am pretty sure it was the first time. Yorktown seems to offer them on the regular every year for comparison.
Lots and lots and lots of talk about equity and inclusion. Very little conversation on academics or academic achievement. This is from both the admin side at school and from the parent side. Sometimes I wonder if they remember that it's actually a school and the point is education not a nonprofit dedicated to social justice.
Anonymous wrote:Thank you PP, for this amazing and detailed description, very much appreciated. Good point about the middle school dynamic, I had forgotten that. Hope your kiddo(s) continue to thrive there! FWIW, our IB program at the moment isn't that heavy in reading either but am hoping that the next year starts to shift in that direction. Somehow I feel like APS pre-IB and the IB diploma program would be hyper stressful, but that's likely another thread!
Anonymous wrote:We are solidly within the boundary for Wakefield but have lived overseas for a while. We are looking at returning and our oldest would attend Wakefield. Any parents with students in the AP class track or regular curriculum willing to share insight about the school and life experience entering as a "new" 9th grader (e.g. did not attend middle school in Arlington to have a group of friends to identify with). How is the faculty? Do your kids feel comfortable, lost, engaged? I am aware of the challenges APS faces for overcrowding and lack of supports for learning disabilities, but we don't really have a choice of where to live or go to school (priced out, cannot afford private, waitlisted for HB, uncertain if we want to continue IB at W/L and that would require another miracle for double blind lottery). TIA