Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:38     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Paid for the AP prep book off amazon he wanted.

Then left him alone in his room.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:21     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing other than ask how it’s going.


What would you have done/said if they responded that it was not going well and they were extremely stressed?


Troubleshoot, see if they needed help in content vs. a study schedule, reassure outcome nbd.

And if they said "I'm just not getting it and I don't know if I have time to figure it all out?!"
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:15     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing other than ask how it’s going.


What would you have done/said if they responded that it was not going well and they were extremely stressed?


Troubleshoot, see if they needed help in content vs. a study schedule, reassure outcome nbd.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:13     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:Nothing other than ask how it’s going.


What would you have done/said if they responded that it was not going well and they were extremely stressed?
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:11     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:Nothing other than ask how it’s going.

Same for us.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:10     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hands off.

Land the helicopter, mom[b].


I was waiting for this.

OP said nothing at all about what would or could be done.

One thing I am doing is telling my child they do not have to participate in some other activities that would otherwise be obligatory either from a family obligation perspective, or from an EC perspective, so that they can study.

Do I need to "land the helicopter"?


Yes


So I should tell my kid they need to attend the EC or family event rather than study?
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:08     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hands off.

Land the helicopter, mom[b].


I was waiting for this.

OP said nothing at all about what would or could be done.

One thing I am doing is telling my child they do not have to participate in some other activities that would otherwise be obligatory either from a family obligation perspective, or from an EC perspective, so that they can study.

Do I need to "land the helicopter"?


Yes


And calm the heck down.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:08     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hands off.

Land the helicopter, mom[b].


I was waiting for this.

OP said nothing at all about what would or could be done.

One thing I am doing is telling my child they do not have to participate in some other activities that would otherwise be obligatory either from a family obligation perspective, or from an EC perspective, so that they can study.

Do I need to "land the helicopter"?


Yes
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:07     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

I told my DD not to worry so much about everybody asking each other how many APs, which ones, etc. and be happy that she doesn't have a crazy, status seeking, overbearing mother.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:06     Subject: Re:How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Nothing other than ask how it’s going.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 20:05     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Anonymous wrote:Hands off.

Land the helicopter, mom[b].


I was waiting for this.

OP said nothing at all about what would or could be done.

One thing I am doing is telling my child they do not have to participate in some other activities that would otherwise be obligatory either from a family obligation perspective, or from an EC perspective, so that they can study.

Do I need to "land the helicopter"?
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 19:49     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

Hands off.

Land the helicopter, mom.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 19:47     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

We don’t do anything.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 19:38     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

I bought a book with practice tests and helped them figure out a schedule to run through them. Don’t know what else there is to do.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2022 19:37     Subject: How involved are you in prep for AP exams?

I'm curious how parents are approaching this.

Scenario: Your kid has their first AP exam next week. Freshman. This kid has lofty goals for themselves and you want to enable them to achieve those goals.

How as a parent do you approach this? How, if at all, do you engage?