Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:54     Subject: Inequality of interest
Anonymous wrote:If he/she is thinking of a proposal and you’re not quite there yet—is there a way to bide your time safely while you figure it all out? Is it unfair and wasting her time.


Have you had a conversation about it? Or is it casual? These sporadic posts are confusing
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:51     Subject: Inequality of interest
Anonymous wrote:If he/she is thinking of a proposal and you’re not quite there yet—is there a way to bide your time safely while you figure it all out? Is it unfair and wasting her time.


How old are you and how long have you been together?
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:33     Subject: Inequality of interest
Anonymous wrote:What do you do when someone is more interested in you then you are into them?


Really depends on length of relationship and magnitude of interest discrepancy. You've been dating one month and one person wants to be exclusive but the other's not sure? Normal. You've been dating 18 months and one is picking out flower arrangements while the other is "just looking to see what's out there" on Tinder? Break up.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:26     Subject: Inequality of interest
Anonymous wrote:If he/she is thinking of a proposal and you’re not quite there yet—is there a way to bide your time safely while you figure it all out? Is it unfair and wasting her time.



She will give an ultimatum. You will get married and have two kids. You still won’t be that into her, and she will wonder why you never help her, take her out on dates, etc.

She will get resentful. So will you.

Let her go and find someone who actually wants to be with her.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:21     Subject: Inequality of interest
Marry them.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:20     Subject: Inequality of interest
Ghost, block.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 10:06     Subject: Inequality of interest
What if college grad GF/BF say they want to marry you after their PhD but doesn’t mention engagement?
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 09:52     Subject: Inequality of interest
Anonymous wrote:Like if you are only casually dating and other person thinks of it as a forever relationship.


If you know you will never get there then you should not see them any more. Be sure that is what they want, as someone I was FWB with thought I wanted to get married, which is insane.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 09:47     Subject: Re:Inequality of interest
One strings the other along for sex until they initial attraction wanes or they find something better.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 09:28     Subject: Inequality of interest
Bump
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 08:50     Subject: Inequality of interest
If he/she is thinking of a proposal and you’re not quite there yet—is there a way to bide your time safely while you figure it all out? Is it unfair and wasting her time.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 08:45     Subject: Inequality of interest
Bump
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 08:35     Subject: Inequality of interest
Like if you are only casually dating and other person thinks of it as a forever relationship.
Anonymous
Post 04/28/2022 08:33     Subject: Inequality of interest
What do you do when someone is more interested in you then you are into them?