Anonymous wrote:I been hoping to get in with them , I just started being scheduled and only had one appointment so far with one of the MFA OBs. Everytime I ask about switching to the midwives, I get the run around or am told to wait until after my first appointment. After my first appointment they say they don’t have the midwives schedule for may and on yet… ummm this is annoying. And now it seems they have midwives leaving. Ugh I’m hoping so bad for a VBAC and I just only want a midwife. Ugh.
The OBs at GW are excellent and frankly, most of them are better than the midwives. You’re in good hands and they’ll do everything to help you have a VBAC. Just make sure you are aware that a successful vaginal birth isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be. You might need forceps, vacuum, emergency C section, etc. And pelvic floor damage and permanent vaginal changes are not uncommon but not often spoken about in the VBAC world. Also prolapse is pretty common after vaginal birth (something like 1/3 get this - obviously there are degrees and many women don’t notice but it can have a huge impact on your quality of life). Drawbacks to a VBAC aren’t always discussed well. And you certainly won’t hear about this from the MWs.