Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The years when the kids are young/preschool are so hard on a marriage. Can't imagine how that stress would be compounded when your spouse travels for a living. It's sad they weren't able to survive it.
+1000
We are in this phase right now and it is the most disconnected we've been as a couple in 10+ years. And we spent much of Covid working from home and spending almost 24/7 with each other (which is a different problem). But if one of us were traveling constantly, working weird hours, etc., I just don't know how you find space for each other. It's already so hard with really small kids who just take so much of you and jobs in mid-career and elderly parents who need more too. It's really hard. I'm with other PPs that I feel bad for them and wish them the best.